So... I'm starting to think a lot more about the future with my partner. And the more I think about kids, the more I think how amazing it would be to be a father, and even think about being that silly father with the crazy mustache and what not. That's always been something I was very content with, and why I never acted on my trans. And I've always been torn between the two because I love being me, but I do want to be a father. Could I possibly, actually be gender fluid? Or what native american's refer to as two-spirit?
Hmmm... Unfortunately I don't have an answer for you. I can however say that I have had a lot of very similar doubts about myself. I'm in a very similar state of uncertainty. Have any other trans* individuals on here felt similarly?
It's possible that you could be. Or you could just be a very special transwoman who wants to be a parent, and maybe you know the only way you can achieve that is by using what you have. Either way, if you want to be a parent/father, as long as you're comfortable with it, then go be the best dad out there.
Hmm, yeah, it certainy seems like you could be genderfluid! I think you should look into it more, maybe do some research and experimenting with how you feel about certain situations/roles/etc/
I had this panic, thinking that if I ever had kids I'd probably act more like a mother. But nowadays the gender roles are so interchanged it doesn't matter. You can be a fatherly parent, but still be a mother.
