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Have to wear a suit and I dont want to!

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Yosia, Apr 29, 2014.

  1. Yosia

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    there is a wedding in the summer and that means I will have to wear a suit and I really feel bad just thinking about it!! I really dont want to and I feel dysphoria by just thinking of me in a suit >.<

    I really cant do it anymore, before I would have been happy to jump into a suit and go but now I just feel I cant~ its so unfair :frowning2:

    what can I do to not feel so bad??
     
  2. FireSmoke

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    Say you can't go to the wedding because you have a cold/to do something of important/to catch a crocodile/to become a butterfly...
     
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    I'm wearing a shirt, tie and khakis right now...:dry:

    I hear ya.
     
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    Ohhh I feel ya Marshmallow. :dry: All those dark clothes sound awful! :frowning2:

    Maybe you can get something more colourful added to the suit?
     
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    Its not the colour really i just want to wear a dress!!! >.<


    And FireSmoke, i actually really want to go just its clothes im uncomfy about >.<
     
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    Aww wish I had some advice on how you could do that! :frowning2:
     
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    What about a very feminine style suit?
    I feel you though my sisters getting married don't know when but ugh id rather burn the dress than wear it.
     
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    Could you convince your parents to let you wear a turtleneck instead of a button down and tie?
     
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    There are women's suits.
    I had to wear one as a compromise once... I thought I looked too feminine, but this will work in your favor.
    It's like the middle ground. Get one with one-button... things. Those are pretty feminine.
     
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    Or buy women's suit pants, a women's turtleneck and then a boy's suit coat... :grin: Actually, lots of women wear boy's jackets.
     
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    are your parents sort of on board with you? if so, maybe you could fem it up. pink tie, colourful socks, a cami under the shirt, a more fem sort of shoe, clear nail polish, girls under garments was already mentioned

    just some ideas that i hope help you.(*hug*)
     
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    You realize not all 15 year old girls get to go out and buy whatever they want... Especially if they are in the closet... :dry:
     
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    True.
     
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    I mean big bad grad students and teachers n junk and stuff can...

    Llama.
     
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    Like others have said a woman's suit might be a good compromise. If you convince your parents that is. :\
     
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    I understand this so much. Me having to wear a dress, no thanks. I really dread it. But luckily, my parents don't force me to go to those type of occasions. Can you get out of it? That's what I would do.
     
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    Yeah! Come on people. We should have figured this out already.
     
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    Thanks very much for the sugfestions but like Kasey said, i am going to struggle to get things like that~ I guess i will just have to put up with it, its only for a day >.<