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Not questioning, but...

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by dubaisexual, May 7, 2014.

  1. dubaisexual

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    So I'm a cisgender female for sure. I am not transgender, that I know.

    But I also know I'm not too feminine nor masculine. I don't necessarily want to be a man, but sometimes I just don't relate with women. Maybe it's just about personality and not gender (like interests and stuff), but it doesn't feel like it is.

    I also tend to be a "gentleman" with my friends. Not because I'm into them or anything, but just because I feel like it's my job to look over them.

    I don't know if anyone can relate or point me in the right direction, but any comments are appreciated
     
  2. Acm

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    Women can act masculine and have male interests, it doesn't make them trans. Gender roles and gender identity are separate things :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm aware, but I'm not masculine either. I just feel like I don't fit as a woman sometimes. Like i said, it could be a matter of interests (or gender roles and such), but sometimes i'm not comfortable being a girl. I just don't necessarily feel like I should be a man either.

    Make any more sense?
     
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    Might you be agender?
     
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    Or gender fluid..
     
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    Eh. Could be...
     
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    Well thanks for you input!
     
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    The real question is: how do you want to be living your life in the future? As a man? Woman? Both? Neither?
     
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    I don't have a problem with being a woman I suppose.
    Sometimes it doesn't feel quite right, but yeah
     
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    Could you expand upon that?
     
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    I don't think I know how. Thanks for you help anyway!