basically, people suck.

Hey. Those kids were real assholes to you. That's terrible. I'm so sorry you had to go through that...there's not much I can say, but stay strong.

 

(*hug*)

I'm sorry. Yeah... one time a guy called across a classroom 'hey he-she!' to get my attention and people laughed. So, yeah, I know how you feel and it sucks.

(*hug*)

 

(*hug*)

In situations like that, if it makes you feel better, if you had something witty and stinging that gets the point across, and you are anything like me, you would still feel terrible because they are just kids if you had actually said it. You really can't win.

 

Let's book it, mate!

 

(*hug*)

I'm sorry man, that really bites. Try not to let it get to you any more than it has. Something to cheer you up...

"How can you get four suits for a dollar?
Buy a deck of cards"

"What clothes does a house wear?
Address"

"What did the necktie say to the hat?
You go on ahead, I'll hang around for a while"

...I really should cut it with the corny jokes, but I hope they help. I'm a corny person, but in the words of Rodgers and Hammerstein, "When the dog bites, when the bee stings, when the bee stings, when I'm feeling sad, I simply remember my favorite things, and then I don't feel so bad." (*hug*)

 

Hah, I think you just won the internet.

:eusa_clap

 

I do my best to please. And honestly, the thought has occurred but after careful research was determined not to be feasible. C'est la vie, eh?

 

(hugs)

Kids these days are a bunch of shit eating fuckheads, screw 'em.

 

I used to be really androgynous when I was a teen. At school I got teased and asked if I was a boy or a girl. I got fed up when some punks asked me the same things.

Kid #1: "So what are you, an it? A he-she? Or a she-he?"

Me: "I can't tell if you're curious or assholes. Or maybe a curious assholes?"

Kid #2: " I guess you're an "it"."

Me: I guess y'all are ignorant assholes. At least I figured you out. Have a great day.

 

(*hug*) All i want to say is fuck those god awful kids. If i were on that bus with you i'd beat the living fuck out of them. :tantrum: But anyway, i do agree people suck. But in this situation being the person that i am i would've stuck up for myself slapped the shit of that kid. But you are a better person than me. But hey transitioning is part of the process and dealing with pieces of shit like that also is part of the process. And once you pass these awful moments the good ones will come you will enjoy them. Just don't tell two this insignificant insects dampen your mood.

(*hug*) Just remember i'm here to support you along with everyone else here.

 

- i know what i am, there was no one that i know around me, but i couldn't get out that i'm a guy.

So I've got some major problems with this statement! MAJOR!

You look my dead in the monitor and tell me that if you'd said "guy" they would have left you alone.

You can't because you know damn well they wouldn't. They weren't asking out of curiosity otherwise they would have apologised for offending you, not called you an 'it'.

If you'd have said you were a guy they would have called you out and made you feel worse.

This wasn't an opportunity for you to shout "I'm a guy" to the world. This was them trying to make you feel bad about yourself. You tried to disengage and they latched on. It was none of their business anyway.

 

I'm sorry to hear that happened stormborn!!
Unfortunately, while a lot of the younger generation are more tolerant and understanding, there are also more stupid assholes with their "swag".

(*hug*)

 

kids =.=

 

yeah, i get it. i'm just frustrated in general, and i just kinda funnelled it towards this. my complete inability to stand up for myself pisses me off, but i just can't. i guess that's what i was getting at.

That's what I mean, you DID stand up for yourself. You asked them why the heck it mattered to them. You could have burst into tears. You could have run away. You could have done a million different things, but you didn't. You stood there and asked them what the fuck difference it made to them. You called them out on it.

They didn't back off.

Don't beat yourself up and tell yourself that you failed here. Even if you had said "I'm a guy" with all the force and conviction in the world they wouldn't have backed off because that isn't why they brought it up.

 

(*hug*) I get that so much. Some people won't even speak to me because I can't tell them my gender. Either that, or I get called he/she or tranny or it.
Pay no attention to them, it's who you know you are that matters.