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do all transmen want to be dads?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by bluerain, May 18, 2014.

  1. bluerain

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    For those who identify as transmen, growing up, did you ever want to be a mother or father figure?
     
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    I want to be a mummy ^.^
     
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    Neither. I don't like children.
     
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    Coming from a transwoman pov, much like Marshmallow... I want to be a mother
     
  5. Acm

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    I've never liked children very much, so no
     
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    Some do, some don't. I kind of do, but I'm not sure I'd be a great one.
     
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    I wish I could be a mother...
     
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    Never occurred to me until the other day when Gates said it. But I guess I could be a mother. I'd probably be pretty good at it. :slight_smile:
     
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    ^^^

    edit: Growing up, when my friends and I played house I wanted to be the dog. So. There's that.
     
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    Neither kids annoy me, but im an awesome uncle :lol:
     
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    I definitely want to be a father!! I've always wanted to have kids; I need someone to spoil. :lol: I'd love 3-4 kids but if I end up single, I'll probably only have 2. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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    Why can't you!? :slight_smile: That's a totally reasonable and achievable goal!

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    :thumbsup:
     
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    I want to spoil my sisters future children :grin: don't know about raising my own...
     
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    Growing up I never saw myself as a mother, but I did see myself as a parent. I can't say I saw myself as a dad because back then I still thought I was a girl cause of my body.

    Now...I'll probably adopt one day maybe. We'll see when that time comes.
     
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    I'd rather be a godfather or uncle... then I'd be able to see children often but not have to be responsible day in and day out.
     
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    I want to be a mom. I think i would be awesome at it. Plus they would have a hot plus size mom. :wink:
     
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    Well, when I was younger, before I started questioning my gender, I always figured I wouldn't have kids because it would require finding a woman willing to reproduce with me, and I don't want to adopt a kid just to be a single parent. I still don't know if I'd want to be a parent or not, I'd probably be shitty at it.
     
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    Awww. You totally would be awesome!

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    -.- stop being mean to yourself! :tantrum: <<< llama tantrum
     
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    Yeah, I've always had shitty self esteem :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    (*hug*)
     
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    I think you would kick ass as a dad. :slight_smile: