Is it normal for me to dress male, use men's products, not shave pits or legs and act male as a lesbian? Do girls like this? Is this weird that I have an interest to dress like the opposite sex but still want to be called female?
You're just more masculine, there is nothing wrong with that. There is a difference between gender identity and gender expression. In your case, you identify as female, but you express yourself more masculine.
It's completely normal; that's pretty much the definition of someone who is butch: their expression is masculine but they still identify as female. Plenty of women like this.
Go ahead. I'm a soft butch, but I don't mind harder butches. And women with body hair are sexy to me :3
Depends on the woman, there are ones who only like femmes, ones who only like butches, and others who don't care!