Curious about Male (Trans) ... I think...

Being attracted to trans men doesnt change your orientation because theyre men.
Its not uncommon for trans men to be in a relationship with other men either. They can be any orientation, so there are trans guys that are gay or bi

 

I don't see why it would change your orientation. You're still attracted to men (cis or trans), though I can understand why something would feel off or different. I got that vibe off a former friend and a sort of acquaintance I met through a social media site who expressed a lot of interest in dating me among other things if you will.

I've been in relationships with men (when I was closeted and when I was out; and I honestly have been leaning in the direction of preferring them anyway) and there are other transmen who date men as well. I just see it as a normal gay relationship; if my partner is cis or trans doesn't change much and it's not really the focus point of anything really. Honestly, my partner and I don't talk about trans issues as much as we used to unless something sparks the conversation (doesn't happen a lot like it used to).

 

Being a transguy more interested in guys than girls, this just makes me feel hope xD And both those terms are fine

 

Since ftms are guys and you like guys, I would say your attractions are pretty normal and you don't need to start questioning your sexuality.

And being a gay ftm, I sincerely hope that relationships with other men aren't rare because that's the sort of relationships I'm into. Ones with guys.

 

That has been my experience with FTMs as well (through YouTube)... they all seem more attractive than cis boys. Probably for the wrong reasons though, all the ones I've seen look twinky and that's my type. Sorry. :icon_redf

 

Because I think most trans guys would rather be seen as handsome/manly than cute/femme.

Nothing wrong with loving the twinks though. ^_^ lol

 

Well i cant speak for all, but i am in the situation where im pretty sure that im transgendered, 99%. But im still very much attracted to women, so i guess its possible to find a male trans that are attracted to men.

All in all, no matter what gender you are attracted to, its all about finding the right one.

 

I was once what I considered to be a normal male who loved women, I thought trans women were also attractive, and should be seen as just normal women. Me and another hetero friend got into a big debate over this, his rebuttals were quite comical to say the least. But in every view, you being guy and being attracted to tranguys still keeps you gay. As they are men now.

 

1) It absolutely does not change your orientation at all. A guy is a guy and a girl is a girl, regardless of sex assigned at birth. It's likely that you're more attracted to transguys because of a higher incidence of some feature/s that you find attractive, which is totally fine and normal. I have certain features that I'm attracted to, in my case, some of these may be more common in cisgirls while others might be more common among transgirls so, I guess that you could say I have no preference in that regard. It's all about features when it comes to pure physical attraction.

2) There are a lot of gay transmen so, yeah, go fishing, mate! :lol:

3) You're not offensive at all; you seem very nice.

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Aww... that's adorable. :lol: Hey, femme dudes need love, too!

 

LGBTQ centers/ events? Gay clubs? Online? Actually, some butch-femme sites even have some gay guys are there (yay inclusiveness!)

 

I think transmen are cuter as well for the same reason xD

 

Yeah, I could be in a bar fight with a split lip and still look like a twink. It's the trans struggle lol.

 

I think transmen who are "twinks" are attractive idk why I don't like "bears" lol maybe cuz my father is built like a bear... Eh idk lol too tired from work

 

I dunno. I imagine I'm something of a baby bear, lol.

 

I'm a twink a I guess? I plan to start going to the gym regularly in a few months though, so hopefully I won't be a uber twink xD