1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Please help

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Daniel003, May 27, 2014.

  1. Daniel003

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2014
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bucks, England
    I am fifteen and until fairly recently identified as female
    I am currently questioning
    I dont feel male... But i dont feel female either
    I feel that i can discuss this with people i know
    Is there any way of knowing or having any idea and how would you label this feeling
    Thanks
     
  2. Kasey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2013
    Messages:
    6,385
    Likes Received:
    162
    Location:
    The Commonwealth of Massachusetts
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Perhaps agender or something is what you are describing.
     
  3. laurenc

    laurenc Guest

    you sound agender to me
     
  4. darkcomesoon

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 17, 2014
    Messages:
    1,359
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    New Jersey
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    There are tons of different labels for gender identities, so I would suggest googling "nonbinary identities" or something along those lines, and looking for a definition that best describes how you're feeling.
     
  5. Daniel003

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2014
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bucks, England
    Thanks
    Do you know of any useful websites
     
  6. TheFSM

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 4, 2014
    Messages:
    183
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Germany
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Lists of terms and definitions:
    Queer Dictionary
    GENDERQUEER AND NON-BINARY IDENTITIES - Genderqueer Identities & Terminology
    A Comprehensive List of LGBTQ+ Term Definitions

    Is that what you want i might have other ressources for you like cool genderqueer youtubers. and lot of cool tumblrs...But i thought what is most imprtant for you at the moment are the terms and definitions.
    My persinal andvice would be: don't worry too much about chosing labels. I personally mostly fit into the agender category but it is not always the case. Gender and sexuality can be very fluid... And take as much time as you need to figure it all out. stressing out about finding a lable that siuts you is not going to help. You have all the time you need (*hug*)
     
    #6 TheFSM, May 28, 2014
    Last edited: May 28, 2014
  7. Daniel003

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2014
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bucks, England
    Thank you
    These have been a bit helpful
     
  8. Daniel003

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2014
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bucks, England
    But if there are any youtubers/ social networkers i can look at then that would be great as well
     
  9. TheFSM

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 4, 2014
    Messages:
    183
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Germany
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Ok, great :slight_smile:
    This is a cool video, I like this youtuber a lot:
    On Being Genderqueer | Ashley Wylde - YouTube

    This is a collab channel about being genderqueer, but they haven't uploaded in a while:
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgDgYRml1iXJ8nk3VM37UgQ

    Jamie has a cool youtube channel and tumblr:
    PenPalFriend - YouTube
    Pyro Maniac.

    Ashley mardell is not genderqueer but she makes grat educational and fun videos:
    (she has a goosd vieo series called a beer and a chat going on )
    https://www.youtube.com/user/HeyThere005

    this is my favorite ted talk about gender:
    Understanding the Complexities of Gender: Sam Killermann at TEDxUofIChicago - YouTube
    He has a website too, I think I already linked you to him:
    (you shopuld go check out the genderbread man. )
    It’s Pronounced Metrosexual
    (he made a book about gender wich you can purchase for free!)
    The Social Justice Advocate's Handbook: A Guide to Gender

    this blog is perfect ♥:
    Alright, then, I'll go to hell.


    Some other tumblr bogs:
    GENDERQUEER AND NON-BINARY IDENTITIES
    Perfect Androgyny
    Queer Dictionary
    NonBinary Babes
    Gender Dragon
    Fuck Yeah Androgyny!
    FUCK YEAH, GENDERQUEERS
    androstyle
    House Of Alexzander

    hope that helps you out even more.. there are quiet a lot of links...
     
  10. TheFSM

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 4, 2014
    Messages:
    183
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Germany
    Out Status:
    A few people
  11. Daniel003

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2014
    Messages:
    115
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bucks, England
    Thank you
    And i agree
    The last clip was very good
     
  12. genderqueerlion

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2015
    Messages:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Britain
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    I'm going through a similar thing, maybe look up the terms 'agender' 'neutrois' (that's me) and possibly even 'androgynous'.

    But if you feel more comfortable, you can just use 'genderqueer' as an umbrella term for it, I sometimes do that.


    I know this is an old thread, but it might help someone else too