Ok before I get into this, it may be a bit PG rated. I'll try to keep it from being too crazy, but turn back if you get offended by genitalia. Ok so I've been privately cross-dressing for a couple of weeks now (feels awesome ) and have had a few issues with tucking "down there". I was wondering if anyone could help out? Or let me know if any of this is normal and will go away? So basically when I push the testicles up inside, it gets kind of sore after a while (like a few minutes). I also find it harder to move because the pressure will cause pain. After a while, they start slipping out. Also, I was wondering if I should still be able to see them inside (like little-ish bumps)?
I have no idea how to answer that, except for saying that the reason I don't bother tucking at all is because of that pain you describe...not worth it.
I have never experienced that kind of pain but I have talked to a lot of people that have. I know a gentler work-around a lot of people go for is to wear a thick maxi pad in a pair of panties. I usually say "panty liner" instead to most people because you do have fewer clothing options this way; that is the downside. However if you do that you don't have to squish anything anywhere near as much at all, and it will give you that nice flat front. A pair of women's jeans on top works especially well with this approach.
