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Dating and the like

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Ngc, Jun 9, 2014.

  1. Ngc

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    How do you tell someone that you any feel comfortable having a relationship at this point, when bringing this up before has done no good? I mean, we haven't been together long, but I'm not ready, it just took me until now to realize it I guess.
     
  2. clockworkfox

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    Just like that, I suppose. It's ok to not feel comfortable having a relationship, and even if you like someone a lot, it's not an obligation to keep dating them. Relationships are about give and take - if you're not up for it, then they should respect that.
     
  3. stormborn

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    explain exactly what you just said. that you aren't comfortable in a relationship, and so you can't be with them any more.

    i was in a similar position, and explaining it just like that worked well :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, just gotta bite the bullet and tell them. Might not have a happy ending, but it'd be better to just be honest!