How do you tell someone that you any feel comfortable having a relationship at this point, when bringing this up before has done no good? I mean, we haven't been together long, but I'm not ready, it just took me until now to realize it I guess.
Just like that, I suppose. It's ok to not feel comfortable having a relationship, and even if you like someone a lot, it's not an obligation to keep dating them. Relationships are about give and take - if you're not up for it, then they should respect that.
explain exactly what you just said. that you aren't comfortable in a relationship, and so you can't be with them any more. i was in a similar position, and explaining it just like that worked well
Yeah, just gotta bite the bullet and tell them. Might not have a happy ending, but it'd be better to just be honest!