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Why can't this be easy... I'm on the wrong end

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by AllenL, Jun 23, 2014.

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  1. AllenL

    AllenL
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    I want to be normal, I want to be happy with the body body I was given. But I'm not normal and my body is like a cruel joke played on me by god. Even though I want to switch genders I have no way of looking even remotely feminine, because I'm so big. Does anyone else feel on the wrong end of the spectrum?
     
    #1 AllenL, Jun 23, 2014
  2. Nychthemeron

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    Definitely. You aren't alone in this.

    Also, just because you're big doesn't mean that you can't be feminine. There are plenty of big ladies out there, believe me. I know a few myself, and they're wonderful.

    I know it's hard. I think most trans people can sympathize. But you aren't alone. We'll all make it through together.
     
    #2 Nychthemeron, Jun 23, 2014
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    Women are all shapes and sizes. Most of us aren't going to be gracing vogue. I'm sorry you've been dealt a hand you're not happy with.
     
    #3 ProtegeMoi, Jun 23, 2014
  4. AllenL

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    Thanks, this is the first time I've done anything like this, I'd like to think that it will get easier once I get to highschool or college. I am just having trouble holding on until then, I am hoping I will be able to get a therepist soon. I have yet to come out to anyone.
     
    #4 AllenL, Jun 23, 2014
  5. LonestarConnie

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    College is really where I started to really come out :slight_smile: At College, you can join an LGBT student organization; you can also find out if there are any LGBT counselors at the University's Counseling Center :slight_smile:

    College is a great time to find yourself and express yourself :slight_smile:
     
    #5 LonestarConnie, Jun 23, 2014
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