Do you guys get jealous of cis guys? Like flat chests, muscle mass etc. or is it just me?????:bang::dry: And does it effect your friendships with them?(*hug*)
I think that is very common among trans people Whenever I go places with my cis friends I'm always comparing myself to them. I don't resent them at all but I envy them a lot. Also the flat chests thing YEAH I get really jealous about that. It's normal and human but it does really suck.
OMG! Don't even start talking about the flat chest and the V shape.. I really do get jealous. It can happen anywhere with strangers or with my friends. It doesn't really affect my friendship with them but sometimes it triggers my dysphoria and I suddenly become so annoyed with myself that I just sit there grouching in silence for a while. So, yes, you're not the only one! Hang in there..
I definitely envy CIS girls for sure but were all girlfriends together it doesn't affect our relationship c :
I used to get jealous of cis-males because they were happy with their bodies, or at least not wanting to rip off their schlong and kick it into the street. I would work out, had pecs, abs, huge arms, could bench way over my weight had the V-shape and hated every minute of it. The compliments weren't enough and I'd always end up being sad that I didn't look female. Such a long way to go. I wasn't ever jealous of women more like a longing feeling. Like I can't wait until I look closer to how I feel.Its weird when you see someone and you check them out and its not like "I want to be with you" but I want to look like you and they don't know what you're thinking.
