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What should I do?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Nightdream, Jul 21, 2014.

  1. Nightdream

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    Gender:
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    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Okay, so I got tired of trying to find out my gender and even a label that suits my sexual preferences, now I won't change a lot my gender/sexuality anymore(I hope so :tears: ), but that's an entirely different issue... Well, by what some people might know, I've been having problems with my gender expression and I still don't know how to get out of my head the fact that I don't need to present myself as a masculine person. :bang: Someone have any sort of advice of what I could do to not feel so pressured to it anymore? :icon_sad:



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  2. stormborn

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    i try to stop thinking of myself in terms of my gender, and focus on myself in terms of me. i try to think, what would i like to wear/do/think/etc, not what would i, as a guy, like to wear/do/think/etc. i'm not sure if that helps you any!