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uhhh..... do i pass as male?

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  1. Complex

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    what would you give me out of 10?
    i generally dont post photos of myslef alll around the net but.... even though everyone says
    i look fine i dont belive them so im posting this :slight_smile:

    i think i pass as male intill i speak with stupid high pitched voice....cant wait till im 18 than
    i can fix that! but im still only 16..... anyway what do you give me out of 10?
    this is my normal look :slight_smile:
     

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  2. laurenc

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    yes you pass . your very handsome :slight_smile: id give you 7 out of 10
     
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    yay :slight_smile: thanks :grin:
     
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    your welcome :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi,

    I don't like 'out of ten' ratings, I feel that seems to create more insecurity in folks than it eases. I'm not trans, I'm much older than yourself, but one thing I can relate to is not being sure of myself. I'm just saying, maybe no matter how much others validate us, there comes a moment when we have to just be comfortable with, and believe in, ourselves, independently of the varying opinions of others; otherwise we are too much at the mercy of others' judgements.

    Ok having given my little lecture: yes, I think you look like a guy. But believe in yourself, don't worry too much about what we think. :slight_smile:
     
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    thanks 4 lecture no seriously i just get worried all the time because i dunno im just insecure or something but yes! now 2 people have said i look like a dude :slight_smile:
     
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    Dude, like your poster says, "you are the definition of swag."

    Seriously though, you look pretty convincing.
     
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    :slight_smile: yay :grin: im the definition of swag i forgot that was up on wall lol :slight_smile:

    but that might explain why i havent had any weird stares since last year. but i still get them when im with my mum she refuses to call me by my new name while my dads cool with it and i dont get any weird looks either when im around him because of that ...he still stuffs it up alot though...
     
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    This is a good thing to live by in life, but for a trans person you need to care a little what others think because if you get misgendered all the time it can really sour your mood.

    You look pretty great to me, I'd think guy if I saw you on the street.
     
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    it's good that i pass as male because i worry about it alot :slight_smile:
    but when i cam out as being trans none of my friends where to surprised about it.
    in fact some of them where wondering why it was taking me so long to say anything about it -_-
     
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    Yes you pass very well c: 8/10 (Also you're really handsome)
     
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    why does every one think im handsome? i dont think im that good looking....considering nobody in my whole life has ever asked me out......though i think my best friend used to have a crush on maybe still does but meh i could be imagineing it he's trans aswell he came out before me though and he's in year 8 while im in year 10...so bit of an age gap but still pretty lucky for me to have a friend whos trans in a school of only 112 people :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm also not huge on ?/10 votes.

    But you definitely pass as a guy to me. :]
     
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    I think you pass quite nicely, if I had just met you I would have never guessed you where trans. Like others have said, you don't just pass, you look good too.
     
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    wow well that means i dont really have to worry than....
     
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    Yeah I think you pass pretty well
     
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    I looked without reading first. Thought you were a gay guy until I read the topic. Yeah you definitely look male to me.
     
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    yes :grin:
    it's just my problem worrying about it every 5 minutes.... that made me get worried if that made sense :slight_smile:
     
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    You pass! :thumbsup:
     
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    Mate, you pass with flying colours! :slight_smile:
    Very handsome indeed :3
     
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