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share your "lighten-up-music"!

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Raatox, Aug 3, 2014.

  1. Raatox

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    I have the impression that a lot of you listen to music to feel better when you feel dysphoric or just blue, so I thought it would be nice to share our favourite "forget-about-all-that-sucks-" songs or artists or albums.

    I start with
    -"All star" by Smash mouth
    -"Das rote pferd" by Markus Becker & MaLLorca Cowboys (it's in german, but the text is totally pointless, so i don't think it matters :wink: )
    -"so what" by pink
     
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    "Someone Who Loves you" Betty Who
    "Tragedy+Time" Rise Against
    "Wash Me In The Water" Jamie N Commons
    Anything by Ramnstein hahaha
     
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    Metal
    Death metal
    Deathcore
    Metalcore sometimes
    Angry anti establishment punk rock
     
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    I blast Nine Inch Nails until I feel better usually

    but for those who like happy music try the bands Grouplove, Passion Pit and Morning Teleportation
     
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    Sigur Ros :slight_smile:
     
  6. Mika!

    Basically anything Mika has done.

    But especially the song We Are Golden.
     
  7. Acm

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    Yeah I agree with thedreamwatch Mika is really good for those times, also the song Mr. Brightside always puts me in a good mood
     
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    Oddly, Stacy's Mom by Fountains of Wayne makes me feel awesome. Also also also, Blink-182 and basically any Boston will kick start my good mood.
     
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    amos moses
     
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    I have a playlist on youtube I call my Dancing Tunes list. I play it when things feel like they suck, and usually dance around my apartment in my underwear. I know I'll add things to it, but currently it features:

    Linkin Park - Burn It Down
    Half Moon Run - She Wants To Know
    The Black Keys - Sister
    Awolnation - Kill Your Heroes
    USS - Damini
    The Heavy - Short Change Hero
    Imagine Dragons - On Top Of The World
    Of Monsters And Men - Little Talks
    Justin Timberlake - Rock Your Body
    Daft Punk - Get Lucky
    Pharrell Williams - Happy
    Paramore - Ain't It Fun
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    Michael Jackson (with Justin Timberlake) - Love Never Felt So Good

    I tend to start dark, like my mood, and work my way up to light.
     
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    i have a playlist like that too!
    this is it:
    crowd surf off a cliff - emily haines & the soft skeleton
    c'est la mort - the civil wars
    the last unicorn - passenger
    the grand optimist - city and colour
    skinny love - bon iver
    kiss me - ed sheeran
    cold moon - the zolas
    she's thunderstorms - arctic monkeys
    snow - the zolas
    paradise - coldplay
    something beautiful - needtobreathe
    just keep breathing - we the kings
    san francisco - the mowgli's
    i wanna get better - bleachers
    in the summer - loon lake

    really, it's just a bunch of songs i love in order from slowest/saddest to fastest/happiest... :lol:
     
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    You have great taste in music, my friend. I'd opt in for some twenty one pilots near the beginning, per say, Trees from their debut album, but other that that, I find nothing wrong with this,which is surprising, considering how nitpicky I am when it comes to music.
     
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    thanks friend. you're got great taste in music too :thumbsup:
     
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    Florence and the Machine

    like the only music that can make me happy these days
     
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    Give it a go - Molotov Jukebox
    Wannabe - Spice girls
     
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    That is a fantastic list! I thought of another one that I find picks me up: Frank Turner - Recovery. Even though it's about (or seems to be about) drugs, I find it really connects with me in regards to the dysphoria thing.

    ---------- Post added 4th Aug 2014 at 05:00 PM ----------

    That is an amazing choice as well! She's wonderful!
     
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    My favourite songs!!
    We share the same lighten-up songs honey!! :wink::grin:
     
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    WARNING: MIXED MUSIC TASTES. PROCEED WITH CAUTION...

    "Smells Like Teen Spirit" / "Heart-Shaped Box" / "Come as You Are" / "Aneurysm" / "In Bloom" / "Silver" / "Lithium" / "You Know You're Right" - Nirvana

    "Call Me When You're Sober" / "Bring me Back to Life" / "Everyone's Fool" / "Sweet Sacrifice" - Evanescence

    "Faint" / "Numb" / "Breaking the Habit" / "Leave Out All the Rest" / "Bleed it out" - Linkin Park

    "Feel Good Inc." / "El MaƱana" / "Clint Eastwood" / "Dare" / "All Alone" / "Oh Green World" - Gorillaz

    "Love Hurts" / "Pardon Me" / "Maglomaniac" - Incubus

    "Dream On" - Aerosmith

    ANYTHING by Queen or The Beatles

    "Under the Bridge" - Red Hot Chili Peppers

    "Ignorance" / "Brick by Boring Brick" / "Ain't it Fun" - Paramore

    "Pain" / "Animal I have Become" / "Just Like You" / "I Hate Everything About You" / "World so Cold" - Three Days Grace

    "Set Fire to the Rain" / "Skyfall" / "Rolling in the Deep" - Adele

    "Hey Ya" / "I'm Sorry, Mrs. Jackson" - OutKast

    "Crazy" - Gnarls Barkley

    "No Leaf Clover" / "For Whom the Bell Tolls" / "One" / "Master of the Puppets" / "Nothing Else Matters" - Metallica

    ANYTHING by Michael Jackson

    50% of Vocaloid songs

    Rihanna, Beyonce/Destiny's Child, Madonna, and Lady Gaga are all guilty pleasures of mine.

    That's all I can think of at the moment...

    ANOTHER WARNING: I'm manic-depressive, so some music that "lightens me up" may not lighten you up. You can mostly tell from the titles. (eg. "Bleed it Out," "Sweet Sacrifice," "Aneurysm," etc..)
     
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    Anything on my iPod, pretty much. :icon_bigg I really like Doctor Who soundtrack, the Beatles, Green Day, and weird children's music.