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Courage

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by artist92, Aug 5, 2014.

  1. artist92

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    Okay, so as you know I just recently came out to yall as a Transgender Female. I have 2 huge worries on my mind besides money.

    1. My family. As I have said before, they are very upset that they think I'm gay (They don't know I'm Transgender). How should I go about this, because telling them seems like a bad idea?

    2. This one's a doozy. How can I get over my initial fear of going out in public in a dress and makeup?
     
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    I had the same problem when I decided to come out as gay but one day me and my friend were talking. He was being very loud and obnoxious and after me telling him to be more quiet so people wouldn't hear him he said something that opened my eyes and became a major influence in my life. He said, and I quote "Why the f*** do I care what these people think of me?" I've applied that rule to myself and honestly I feel more open with people and more like well... me. You may be hurt, relationships may be lost and you might need to cut some very important people from your life but you'll form new relationships, live without fear and most importantly, be YOU.
     
  3. artist92

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    Thank you for that. That's the mentality I'm trying to take on. Also, shout-out to Susan on the TrevorProject's help chat. She really gave me some pointers and help that I needed. I am telling my boyfriend tonight, and I'm scared to death.
     
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    I'm with you on that group of fears!!
    I guess as you grow more comfortable with your body, confidence will build with you! :slight_smile: x
    Aw hun, you'll be fine, just stay calm *hugs*
     
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    So...my boyfriend seemed confused, shocked, and very hurt. I feel awful.
     
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    Well, I'm single now.
     
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    (*hug*) I'm sorry
     
  9. artist92

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    It hurt, but not as bad as I expected. I knew he wouldn't be able to follow me down this path. We will still remain really good friends.