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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by idream, Aug 7, 2014.

  1. idream

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    There are times when I feel like a boy, and times when I feel like a girl so I decided I was genderfluid, but lately its sort of evened out. I don't exactly feel like either a boy or a girl. Or maybe feel like both at once. I know I'm non-binary but I can't decide if I'm actually genderqueer, agendered or still simply genderfluid, this just bing a third gender?
     
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    I don't have any answers for you. I do know that I personally realized that I had never been happy 'being' a man, but that I had been deliberately double thinking to maintain blind spots in my own awareness of myself, since I did not want to think about it. Since then all I know is that this is the major source of social anxiety to me. I feel like I know how I am 'supposed' to act but I both find it difficult and genuinely don't want to anymore. I also don't know if I really want to transition to being more feminine since my body type makes being passable almost impossible (shoulders and arms and jaw). Not even sure if that is what I want or that it would make me happy. So not a man really, not a woman, what then..? Self determinism ho!

    A lot of thinking to do for people in this type of situation, eh?

    Hope you find some answers! Thanks for your post.
     
  3. idream

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    Thanks for your response:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Sounds like a classic case of individualism.
     
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    If you feel like your gender no longer changes, than the label genderfluid no longer applies. If it still changes, but just less, or something like that, then I would say you are genderfluid and this is a third gender.

    I can't help too much if you think you're agender or genderqueer. Figuring out which one applies would just be a matter of figuring out which label feels more comfortable and which seems to fit how you're feeling.