Thinking of going back to a gay bar I used to go to. I want to make sure I pass as male, that people know I'm trans, but I'm not very good at it. Also, should I try using the men's toilet? The bouncers there are known to be not the nicest people so I'm worried about being barred if they see a woman using the men's toilets.
I would use the men's toilets if you have faith that nobody would be violent if they somehow figured out that you were trans'
