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Trans female or something else in the gender rainbow?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by JustJJx, Sep 8, 2014.

  1. JustJJx

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    Right, well i've always been drawn to the female side of life, even as a kid i would want to wear girls clothes, wear makeup and do girly things with my sisters!
    Now i'm 18 i need an answer. I tuck and wear some female clothes and it feels natural and great! I really want to try make up again after my eyeliner disaster haha
    But...i also have days where i do feel male and days where i feel nothing!!
    What am i!? :/
     
  2. AsheTheHuman

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    Hmm... I'd say you're gender queer. That means you switch back and forth between male and female, and sometimes both or sometimes neither! Good luck, Blythe! <3(*hug*)
     
  3. JustJJx

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    Thank you Ashe ^_^
    Yeah, that makes more sense doesn't it! Some days i'm him, some i'm her...
     
  4. Nekoko

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    I'm not sure that's something we can tell you, you kind of have to find out for yourself who you are and what makes you happy! Nobody can really give you that answer for you. I recommend doing research on the different gender classifications and decide for yourself where think you fit in. I did a lot of wiki research during my questioning faze. It helped me a lot in discovering who I am. Anyways I hope that helps! I wish you the best! ^_^
     
  5. darkcomesoon

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    You definitely could be genderqueer, which is a term used to describe pretty much any nonbinary identity. What AsheTheHuman is describing is usually referred to as being genderfluid (which does fall under the genderqueer umbrella) and could also describe you.
     
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    you could be pan-gender too. where both sides come out at different times, or there is a balance between the two
     
  7. jay777

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    You might have a look at this:
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/150966-androgyne-identity.html#14
    and this:
    Am I Transgender or Transsexual - Teens Wonder Am I Transgender or Transsexual

    The transgender spectrum goes i.e. from people living with almost androgynous appearance, to styling more like the preferred gender, to taking hormones, to srs.
    Of course the list is not all possible options.
    It's up to you to collect further information...
    You might also for example talk to a gender therapist or someone from an lgbt center, if that's what you want.

    I would do things I'm comfortable with, don't feel pressured to do something... its your decision...
    There is no only one right way to do this.
    Its your choice what you want to do...
     
  8. JustJJx

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    Thank you for the help everyone, means a lot!! ^_^
    I'll definitely think about talking to a gender therapist, that would so hard for me though :/
     
  9. Wuggums47

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    As others have said, you're some kind of genderqueer, probably genderfluid.