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Can trans feeling disappear entirely?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Belieber, Sep 9, 2014.

  1. Belieber

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    I've wanted to a be a girl since I was 11. I wasn't making a lot of friends with people, and was sort of like an introvert. I had a unique way of thinking and felt that boys and girls should get along together. However, in an Asian country, this wasn't happening much. Thus, I had no friends, literally none, and developed depression by about the age of 12.

    I'm currently suffering from depression still at 16, and my trans feeling seem to disappear as a very major exam approach. I guess the feelings disappear because both seems life-changing, getting a degree and being a girl are both life-changing hence, due to my stress towards the incoming major exam, my trans feeling seems to be put on hold.

    But I somehow can't recall why I wanted to be a girl anymore for about the past 2 months, maybe due to stress or mental blockage? Did my brain just became more developed or can trans feeling disappear entirely and suddenly?
     
  2. NingyoBroken

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    Hey, just dropping by to say that not all Asian countries are the same as yours so don't generalise them.

    Bye
     
  3. Kaylen

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    I think they (I'm sorry for using a gender neutral pronoun, I was not sure as to your preference.) were more referring to a common cultural aspect. Men, in most country's, still have at least a little more power than women.

    And those sorts of things are life-changing. You might have never been trans - and may have actually been a 'phase,' but as you said, you are under a lot of stress. I would take the time to consider who and what you want as a person and your future, and come back to it when you feel less stressed, and are more collected.

    Ultimately, it's your life, and how you feel.
     
  4. Lina13

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    I agree.
    We go through major changes in puberty and things may change or develop.You are still young, you will figure things out in the future.(*hug*)
     
  5. Wuggums47

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    My dysphoria waxes and wanes, but I always want to change what gender I'm perceived as.