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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kafei, Sep 14, 2014.

  1. Kafei

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    I'm having a lot of trouble trying to decide on a male name for myself. Nothing I've tried or thought of has clicked yet. Can anyone give me some advice or name suggestions? You can just list your favorite male names and I can go through them and see if I like any of them. I would do this with my friends, but none of them are open enough with me yet about my gender for this conversation to be comfortable.
     
  2. hip2hop

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    One thing you could do is look up names online usually baby naming sites is a good place to start. As far as male names goes here are a few suggestions:

    - Wyatt
    - Julian
    - James
    - Charles
    - Jamie
    - Terry
     
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    Do you want something brand new? Or something close to the name your parents gave you?
    Do you want something unique or something discrete?
    What matches your personality?
    Do you want to match your ethnicity/background/nationality?
    Is there something that pops into your head?
     
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    try this site: Behind the Name: Meaning of Names, Baby Name Meanings

    My favorite male names are:

    Matthew
    Leo
    Stephen
    David
    Scott
    Charlie
    Neil
    Reid
    Cecil
    Wes
    Kenneth
    Isaac
    Rafael
    Felix
    Evan
    Ray
    Alex
    Xavier
    Zack
    Avery
    Adrian
    Seth
    Glenn
    Noel
    Noah
    August

    And a few more, probably, but I can't seem to think of them.
     
  5. Acm

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    My favorite names: Charles, James, Cecil, John, Tom, Neil, Mark, Aaron, Lucas, Adam, Leo, Rory, Dante, Harry, Sam, Addison, Avery, Martin, Simon, Nathan, Jack, Micah, Mitchell, Troy, Will, Ben, Chris

    Try looking at a baby name website
     
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    I believe that 'Jasper' would be good. JASPER!
     
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    I really like Jude :slight_smile:
     
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    I like dirk,or jake, or dave
     
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    Some names I like:

    Elijah
    James
    Avery
    Adam
    Luke
    Rory
    Dante
    Trevor
    Erik
    Jasper
    Casper
    Max
    Patrick
    Wade
    Calvin
    Spencer
    Charlie
    Daryl
    Brian
     
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    Some names I like:
    Hunter
    Shawn
    Damien
    Daniel
    Carter
    James
    Quintin/Quinton/Quinten
    Ryan
    Adam
    Kyle
    William
    Liam
    Vincent
    Victor
    Rhys/Reese
    Peter
    Jackson really like the nickname sonny
    Jesse
    Sawyer
    Brian
    Christopher like the nickname Topher
    Oliver
    Kurt
    Blaine
    Greg
    Zachary
    Levi
    Andrew
    Chase
    Skylar. Though a lot of ftms have this name and vice versa for mtfs.
    Jethro
    Tony
    Timothy
    Xavier
    Ethan
    Franklin
    Ash
    Ulrich put all the alphabet except y because no names starting with y come to mind.hope that helps.
     
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    I like Felix or Rupert
     
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    I kinda love the name Adrian
     
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    What about Riyan? Quite unusual but I love it!
     
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    Those are the male players and beta players of home stuck.... XD

    Anyways, I like Xavier, Benjamin, Cyrus, Gabriel, Kai, Adrian, Devin or Alex. (*hug*)
     
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    Apollo
    Atlas
    Andromeda
    Pluto
    Mars

    Don't you want to be a god?

    In all seriousness, I've always liked uncommon names like,
    Leo
    Xavier
    Jeremiah

    Just don't name yourself after an emotion, or do, if you want to, it may confuse a few people though.
     
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    My favorite male names are Alex(ander), Axel, Oliver, Livius, Xavier, and Ezekiel (Zeeke). Good luck, I hope you can find one that feels right to you!!
     
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    Read this before doing anything else and clicking on the spoiler. As soon as you click on the spoiler read the instructions and answer it immediately. Report back to us. I'm curious.

    Here we go.

    What is your favorite male name? Don't think just say it.

    That should give you a clue right there.
     
  19. Kafei

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    Thanks all of you! Most of you have actually suggested names that I've been thinking of trying, and a good portion of you have given me new names to think about.

    Feel free to keep posting names. I'm still very much undecided and more suggestions would maybe help me find something that clicks.

    And I think I've decided that I want my middle name to be James (because my current middle name is my grandmother's name and my grandfather's name is James) but that could still change. And I still need a first name, hah.

    ---------- Post added 15th Sep 2014 at 11:12 AM ----------

    Ahhhh, thank you so much for this. Unfortunately, my mind drew a complete blank. D:
    But I really appreciate the gesture! This was fantastic advice and I'm definitely sure it'll work for someone else even though it didn't work for me.
    I think my problem is I have so many names swimming around in my head right now that I'm too confused.
     
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    As soon as I started thinking about it Andrew just came to me and it's kind of stuck now. We'll, for me at least, nobody else knows yet. I like that it's definitely male - so nobody will be looking at my body for clues.

    Try saying some of the ones you're thinking of out loud, in the way you would if you were introducing yourself to someone. I also tried it out on my email signature at work (without sending the email obviously!) and it just felt right. Once I decided I liked it I set up an email address with it and it seemed natural.