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I'm so annoyed

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by itsAli, Sep 24, 2014.

  1. itsAli

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    A gay guy at college called me hot yesterday and I was so happy and it made me feel so confident. He also believed I was a cisgender male.
    Then my friend decided to tell him I'm transgender. I don't know why she did it but it annoyed me so much. I was so happy, even though it was only one person who believed I was a cisgender male, it was a start.
    I mean, he's not treating me any differently now, but it was nice him seeing nothing other than a male beforehand.
     
  2. Starfleet

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    Wow, sorry to hear this. That sounds hurtful, why is it even an issue for your friend?
     
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    Wow, that was pretty rude of her but on the bright side he thought you were cis that's pretty awesome! ^^
     
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    He did until she told him, I just wanted one person to think I was and I didn't want that to change, it made me feel so good about myself
     
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    You should tell her to not do that without your permission, she probably didn't knew that it'd make you upset... Well, it's good to know that you passed as a cis guy. Try to not think of it as something entirely bad, okay?