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Chest Dysphoria

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by anon4117, Oct 5, 2014.

  1. anon4117

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    Sorry if this is just a rant.
    I hate my chest. Hate it. I am a 38D and I barely can stand having them:bang: during the day at school with my binder but then I come home at night and I have to take it off and it is terrible! Showering is the worst but sleeping is really bad too. I can't stand having them there. I just want them off. I can't concentrate on anything else. They aren't supposed to be there. All day at school, I look at the other guys and see that they don't have them. Why do I have them? It is making me crazy and I don't know what to do. :bang:
     
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    I'm sorry, hang in there. I have so much respect for those of you guys with large breasts; I was blessed with small ones, and I don't know how I would be able to cope if they were any bigger. I don't really have any advice... Is surgery possible in your current situation?
     
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    Thanks for the reply.
    I am 16 and only recently came out to my mom (I don't live with my dad.) She is really having trouble getting on board with it. I am pre T and everything too. There is no way I could ask her about surgery at this point. I don't like to take my binder off and I slept in it the last two nights even though I know you are not supposed to.
     
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    I also am blessed with a fairly small chest, so I'm no expert. Definitely try not to sleep with a binder on, it can be super dangerous. You could sleep with a high compression sports bra if that's an option. I know there are some you can get at target or other stores that are fairly cheap. Hopefully your mom will be supportive, good luck and wish I had more to offer
     
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    same here, but i really don't have 38d cup mine are less than A i think, but still i have them like lemons XD and i do exactly the same , i stare at guys' chest wherever i go and i just wish i had flat chest like them without binding and hurting my poor "body" but i'll say like everyone and like to myslef , we need to hang on. you didn't come out yet or what?