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Geder fluidity or fluctuatig dysphoria?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Raatox, Nov 9, 2014.

  1. Raatox

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    Some days I Just want to pass as a male and get dysphoric about people calling me female and wearing female clothes and my body. Some other days I can kinda like my body, or at leastfell quite comfortable in it, i can wear some female clothes and when someone says 'she', it's like "puh, I pass".

    Is this common among trans*-persons or is it actually some kind of genderfluidity?
     
  2. RalphHenry

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    I get that too sometimes. For me it feels like some days I absolutely have to pass or be as manly as possible or else I will get really anxious and some days I can deal with my body and being misgendered. However, I know I'm 100% trans and I can't just be happy with my female body. There's always something on my body that bothers me, but to different degrees.
     
  3. Acm

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    I think it's pretty common for dysphoria to fluctuate, it doesn't always have to be really bad. Sometimes it's awful, sometimes it's barely noticeable
     
  4. BradThePug

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    I get this sometimes too. It's what led me to identify as pangender for a long time. I thought that what I was feeling was making me not be male. Later on, I realized I was just having different levels of dysphoria.