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I never felt 100% cisgender.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by ILuvMusic90, Nov 10, 2014.

  1. ILuvMusic90

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    I'm AFAB (assigned female at birth), but I never felt 100% female. I only wore feminine clothes and makeup to try and fit in with other girls. Truth is, I'm not really into that sort of thing. I like science much better than fashion, I hate dresses and skirts, and I'm more comfortable in men's clothes. My past is very painful, and I want to move on from that, so I want to become the person I truly was meant to be. I don't identify as a trans man. I identify more as androgynous/genderqueer. Any suggestions, such as what to wear?
     
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    Wear whatever you want to. :3
     
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    What about button down shirts or sweaters, one or two sizes bigger ?

    Baggy pants, or maybe from the unisex section ?
     
  4. Acm

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    (Just wanted to point out that women like science too)

    Wear whatever makes you comfortable
     
  5. lymanclark

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    Yeah, most women in our family are scientists; that's kind of stereotyping.
     
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    can you explain what "cisgender" means without using a bunch of stereotypes?
     
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    Yes.

    Whatever you want.



    Love yah <3
     
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    cis gendered people feel like the gender that they were born as fits them perfectly but some people like me don't always feel that's the case which is why I consider my gender to be gender fluid because I feel that sometimes I feel more masculine than feminine or more feminine than masculine, and sometimes neither one because I'm so sleepy that I run on my nearly emotionless auto pilot mode. hope that helps
     
  9. lymanclark

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    It basically means that your gender identity matches the sex you were assigned at birth :slight_smile: like, if you're born with female body parts and identify as female, then you're a cisgender female (!)
     
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    and there is nothing wrong with being cis or transgendered and those who say otherwise are very judgemental