I have a slight. Issue that confuses them. They ask if I am gay and I say no. When I bed a man I am his woman and his woman alone. I don't see myself being gay. I see myself as a person who doesn't see the boundaries that society places on me. I am married to a woman no; however in the last 3 years I haven't had sex with her because I was starting to feel like a lesbian.We've have had several problems because of this. I finally came out and told her how I have felt and she finally understands what has been going on. I know it was unfair of me to keep this secret. It is hard to tell your wife that you don't love her as a husband should love his wife