What are some good questions to ask yourself when questioning?

I ask myself what I want people to see me as. Male, in my case. I also ask myself to explain my dysphoria if I wasn't trans.

 

If you could be any combination of he sexes that you would want to be, what would you choose? How would you want to be perceived, and would you like to be able to change the perception that others have of you from day to day?

 

I once read this on an article on the internet:
'if you could press a button to magically change your gender, would you?

Now if you had another button that could take away all your dysphoria and frustrations and let you live your life as the gender you are, which button would you press?'

I would assume these questions are a lot more difficult for someone whose agender though, things get a lot less clear for those of us outside of the binary, but I hope you find the identity you're looking for.

Even just skipping ahead and thinking about what steps you'd want to take in any sort of transition to make you feel comfortable can help with the previous identity question.

 

Who do you see yourself as in ten years time?

Draw a picture of you on the inside

Would you be a mother, father, neither?

What would you like to change about yourself, what do you like and dislike about you? Could those factors be concidered masculine/feminine?

 

Who am I outside of my gender? How does gender play with that? What does an ideal day look like for me? If I could make a copy of me, but had to live as the copy when I was done, what would the copy be like?