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Interested in cross-dressing.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by CaptiveLemon90, Dec 12, 2014.

  1. CaptiveLemon90

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    I've recently started to realize that I am probably bisexual, but also that I am not 100% masculine as well. I don't identify as a woman but I find the idea of at least dressing like one to be very intriguing. Not because of some weird sexual thing but just because I would like to see what it would be like to live as a woman. Any advice would be appreciated.
     
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    Try it :slight_smile: Seriously, just check out some tutorials online and have a full 'makeover', just to see what its like. If you don't like it, you never have to do it again, but at least you'll know :slight_smile: Hope everything turns out okay and you find what works best for you :slight_smile:
     
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    Do it. There's nothing wrong with experimenting or expressing your femininity.
     
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    They're just clothes. Do it.
     
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    I'm with you, except dressing more like a dude. I say, go for it!
     
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    Yeah, just pick out something you think looks nice and try it! Why not?
     
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    Do it. If you are afraid of someone you know seeing you, go to another town. But do it.
     
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    The only problem is it is somewhat difficult for me at the moment,.
     
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    I was exactly like you back in high school. I say go for it! You never know, you may like it a lot. :slight_smile: I did.
     
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    I always just shoved my acknowledged but unaccepted identity in the back of my head, but this one time I kinda let it out a little at a party and a guy I didn't even know well was like "wanna wear some of my clothes?" So I did, and it was awesome! Most of the people at that party were basically strangers, but none of them asked questions, they just nodded said "looks good but you should get some that actually fit" and that was it!

    Try it, to any degree you can, you don't even have to show anyone, just get dressed or do your make up, take a selfie, and enjoy. Or sate your curiosity at least.
     
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    You might go to a thrift shop and try on some coats... or some other clothing... and see how that feels... just like CJliving suggested...
    did this once and the feeling was amazing...

    if someone makes a remark you can say you try this just for fun...
     
  13. CaptiveLemon90

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    Thanks for all the advice it has been very helpful. Any more would be appreciated. But if I'm going to go through with any of this it would be helpful to get a friend involved as well, which is much scarier than coming out as bi.