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Preferred pronouns!

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Nekoko, Dec 20, 2014.

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  1. Nekoko

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    Simple enough, what do you/would you prefer to be called?

    For me I prefer "she" in private but because of my limited out status I prefer "he" in public right now.
     
    #1 Nekoko, Dec 20, 2014
  2. Acm

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    I prefer male pronouns but I don't get called them anywhere except online.
     
    #2 Acm, Dec 20, 2014
  3. drwinchester

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    Male pronouns and nothing but that.
     
    #3 drwinchester, Dec 20, 2014
  4. Minnie

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    Male.
     
    #4 Minnie, Dec 20, 2014
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    Male or neutral (they/them) pronouns are good for me :slight_smile:
     
    #5 BradThePug, Dec 20, 2014
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    Currently neutral as most know me as non-binary, but will open up the option for male when I'm out to more people.
     
    #6 Maxis, Dec 20, 2014
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    Male or gender neutral (they/them) although that's only online and with my therapist.
     
    #7 Manta, Dec 20, 2014
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    He/him is the best, but they/them is okay too. Only ever get called by he/they pronouns online, though
     
    #8 dray7, Dec 20, 2014
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    They/them/their
    And maybe she/her if it doesn't get awkward.
     
    #9 Yosia, Dec 20, 2014
  10. Oddish

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    Male or neutral (they/them) is fine, though most people only refer to me with male pronouns.
     
    #10 Oddish, Dec 20, 2014
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    He or she is what I prefer but I would not mind they.
     
    #11 wolf of fire, Dec 20, 2014
  12. NingyoBroken

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    He/him/his.


    If someone called me they/them, which my mother is beginning to call me, I won't mind though I prefer he because I am a guy.
     
    #12 NingyoBroken, Dec 20, 2014
  13. lymanclark

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    Male ("he", "him", etc). I suppose "they" is okay, though I don't see why anyone would need to call me that...

    I HATE "it". I've been called "it" before, ostensibly as a joke, and arrrrgghhhh :tantrum:
     
    #13 lymanclark, Dec 20, 2014
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    Male or neutral.
     
    #14 Kaylen, Dec 20, 2014
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    I'm weird and like ze/zir, but since I'm not really out to anyone about my gender status, I don't mind if people refer to me as female.
     
    #15 Raceme, Dec 20, 2014
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    To copy and paste from my Blog:



    I'll add something about my birth name. While it is a male name, it is a very powerful and okay one, so I tolerate it. To be honest, if I were named anything else, I'd be more focused to change it. But it still has a firm softness to it, so, I use it for the time being; at least until I find a more feminine-sounding name, that I'd be totally comfortable with rocking 24/7.

    It's kind of like why I have the username Kaiser, when that's male. I just like the sound of Kaiser more than the feminine version, Kaiserin. I like the sound of my name, too, even if it isn't exactly what you'd name a girl.

    Hopefully, that made at least some sense, LOL!
     
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    Male pronouns, both online and offline.
     
    #17 Daydreamer1, Dec 20, 2014
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    I like neutral pronouns, either them/their or ze/zhir. So far I haven't gotten called them, even though some people have been told.
     
    #18 CJliving, Dec 20, 2014
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    Male, though neutral would be better than female pronouns.
     
    #19 Tai, Dec 20, 2014
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    Like you I'd prefer the female pronouns too, but I'm only out to a few people right now.
     
    #20 Bobba, Dec 20, 2014
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