I've posted this before, but I want to know. If I want to, and am willing to go through gender change procedures, and would much rather be female; am I transgender? If not then what am I?
Hugely uncomfortable with my current body. So much that if I could have one wish, I would wish for changing my gender.
I agree that it does sound like you could be trans. I would caution though that we really cannot tell your full thought processes from a few posts. You are the person that knows your feelings best.
I admit it seems a little confusing the way individual trans people word their own experiences, it can make you doubt whether your feeling is "the same" and therefore valid. Maybe what you're wondering is, is there a distinct difference between strongly wishing you were a girl and knowing you ARE a girl? Actually, that's something I don't have the answer to, so by all means, everyone feel free to take a crack at it!