I'm really excited about this, so I thought I'd share it with you guys. I've had a rough couple of days, in part because I was struggling with gender stuff, but things are looking up. Today I decided (very impulsively) to tell my girlfriend my chosen name. I'm already out to her about my gender, and I assumed she'd just be like "oh cool" and move on, but the first thing she said was "would you like me to call you that?" so now I have someone who calls me by my real name, and it already feels awesome She said she really likes the name Jesse and that it seems very fitting for me, which is great because I was kinda worried she wouldn't like it as much as I do. So basically the whole thing went so perfectly.