So yeah i've been questioning my gender identity after i came into terms with being a lesbian. Ive found that genderqueer fits but lately ive felt like i'm trapped as a drag queen and theres no escape!!. Does this even make sense?
for me, it doesn't have to make perfect sense. sometimes, we yearn for belonging to make us feel secure about ourselves. however, no matter how we categorise ourselves, time and time as we grow older and wiser with experiences, we will find that we no longer fit. unusual or not, for me, it matters less... in time. you are perfectly okay, albeit confused.
You might have a look here: emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/159807-figuring-out-my-gender-identity-s.html#4 You could play a bit with hair and clothing styles, and see how that makes you feel... you could look at second hand shops... it can be really fun... remember its a spectrum, and its up to you where you feel comfortable... (*hug*)
