I am from India and am gay and am a muslim. I am 26 years old. I got married to a girl two months back. I always thought that am bisexual and I would be able to lead a happily married life with a girl. But I was wrong. I am not able to connect to my wife physically nor emotionally. And the fact that she loves me just aggravates my pain. I have decided to come out to my wife and parents. I have already come out to my cousin brother and have asked his help for coming out to parents and wife. I know my life is going to change forever. But I have to do it. I know if I continue to live with her, I won't be loyal to her. It's better to let her know now and let her go.
Well i can't help you much since i don't know your culture... its up to you what you say since you know the people involved best... Being gay is not a choice, so its neither their nor your fault.. Empty Closets - For Parents ->The credible scientific literature ... You might say to parents that your orientation is only a part of you... you are still the same... same sense of humour, same interest in sports etc... wish you the best
