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I need advice

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by honeybee2, Mar 9, 2015.

  1. honeybee2

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    Okay! This is my first thread, and I havent been on a site like this before, but I would like some help. First of all, how can I convince my parents to get me a binder(I have asked them before and my mom is probably not convincable, my dad I may be able to get)? Second of all which binder? I have been looking but have not found anything. I am an a/b but very skinny, which as far as I can see poses a problem. Does anyone have suggestions?
     
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    I came here for a reason :0

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    Thank you! ^u^
     
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    Oh, the links seem not to work, dunno why, just use the search button above. Btw there are many videos about binders on youtube.
     
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    As far as convincing goes, tell them it is a great quality tank top or something for school. I don't wear a binder however those lines work for me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    you could try explaining it will make you more comfortable, etc if that will work. if you really can't convince them (and have some cash), you could go buy a visa giftcard. i know underworks definitely takes them. you could also look into any queer resource centres near you, sometimes they have binder exchange programs or sliding scale :slight_smile: