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gender fluid

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Alisa Arwen, Mar 22, 2015.

  1. Alisa Arwen

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    After an event the other day which excited me and me liberated while feeling feminine, I have come to the conclusion that I identify with with being gender fluid.

    I might come to different conclusions as I experiment more, but I want to just to tell you that I believe I am, and I feel I am gender fluid.

    It's a relief.
     
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    Gender fluid... I like it :3
     
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    Doesn't it sound nice? Happy for you!
     
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    When I discovered and accepted this about myself, it was a revelation, and it has become one of the treasures of my life. :slight_smile: Looking back, it was always this way, I just didn't have the concepts and terms with which to observe or contemplate it with, but coming here to ec has given me those.
     
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    It's great. I knew it wasn't just crossdressing when I felt the way I did the other day, but then today I have felt male. The feeling of femininity I had the other night was different to what I've had before.

    I realise now I can be both.
     
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    I guess next is working out how to express this.
     
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    well you could try clothings, hair styling, just experiment with it, do what makes you feel good and decide which way to go eventually
     
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    Yeah, what I really mean is - where, when, and with who to experiment :slight_smile:

    I love this :3
     
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    I like being genderfluid...
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    That's great that you found your identity! Congrats!
     
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    :slight_smile:

    Knowing me I might change my mind...

    I need to experiment when I have time to myself while my family is not around. I have a couple of hours today...sooo I might put on a dress and heels and a wig and see how it feels for an hour or two
     
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    I still don't know if this is right for me
     
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    Labels aren't final. Don't sweat it. <3
     
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    take it easy and experiment a while, you'll find your way