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This gender thing is confusing

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by ForNarnia, Mar 26, 2015.

  1. ForNarnia

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    I've posted about this before, but I'm still not sure.

    -Basically, about 50% of the time, I feel like I don't really have a gender, I'm just me.
    -About 35% of the time, I feel like a male (or how I'd assume a male would feel anyway)
    -And the rest of the time, I feel like a girl.

    This is kinda weird, because I can't tell if I just don't fit gender roles or if I am actually a different gender.

    I don't like being called a girl, a woman, or a female, but I use female pronouns. Basically, people used to called me by male pronouns and tell me I was a man as insults, and I can't tell if that's why I don't want to use male pronouns.

    I present as female in public because it's easier, but I prefer how I look as a guy.
    When I imagine myself in a relationship with a man, I tend to see myself as a male, but if I imagine being in a relationship with a woman, I kind of fluctuate between male and female.

    Maybe I'm totally wrong here and I am actually 100% female, but I'm not sure, so any help you guys could give would be really useful. :3 Thanks for reading xx
     
  2. Astral

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    To me, it sounds like your genderfluid / androgynous. You'd have to do more research into the several distinctions between those and related titles as I'm not too well versed on every one's meaning. Just my opinion though. :slight_smile:
     
  3. ForNarnia

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