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For me, gender is irrelevant in relation to attraction.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Damien, Mar 27, 2015.

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  1. Damien

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    For me, what a person's gender is, isn't the determining factor for whether or not I feel attraction for them. What matters is if I find them beautiful, if they are cute, charming, funny, you know, all the things that are appealing, and also the expression in their eyes. I have never felt so free in my entire life. I'm very happy to finally be understanding and accepting of my sexuality.
     
    #1 Damien, Mar 27, 2015
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    Woop! :slight_smile: That is a beautiful way of thinking :grin: I'm happy for you :3
     
    #2 ForNarnia, Mar 28, 2015
  3. Michael

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    I used to be like you, now it's different. Not sure if better or worse, just different.
    Keep it as long as you can, it's very rewarding to be that way.You are very lucky indeed.
     
    #3 Michael, Mar 28, 2015
  4. NingyoBroken

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    Agreed. If they're pretty I don't care what they identify as, or what parts they have.
     
    #4 NingyoBroken, Mar 28, 2015
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    Yeah, people usually call being gender-blind being 'pan', but calling yourself 'pan' or 'bi' is purely under your own preferences. I'm glad you have accepted yourself, also. I wish you luck.
     
    #5 dirglenerg, Mar 31, 2015
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    I think "bi" means you are into both male and female, hence "bi", while "pan" means you also include non-binary people in there too.

    But of course, what you call yourself is your choice. No judging here.
     
    #6 RainDreamer, Mar 31, 2015
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