I've recently discovered that I'm bigender and I'm looking for other bigender people to talk to for advice/reassurance about some stuff.
You might have a look here for a few thoughts that might help: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/150966-androgyne-identity.html#14 and, well, you might look up a few threads of non binary people and talk to them on their walls... hugs