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Little Passing Tips! (FTM)

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Folieadeux, Apr 12, 2015.

  1. Folieadeux

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    Hey! So I thought I could contribute some passing tips; lots are probably common knowledge, but I thought it would be cool if anyone could contribute some ideas as well!

    - I found that by shaving your 'happy trail' it grows back more noticeable
    - Slouch those pants, man
    - Try to stand with equal weight on both legs, and when I'm just standing I put my hands sort of half way in my pockets as a resting stance
    - Don't put your wispy hairs and make them sideburns, just square them off
    - Hoodies are definitely your best friend
    - If you have no binder or sports bra, you can use a camisole with the extra fabric on the chest part and turn it backwards for a bit of compression
    - Short nails are pretty key unless you can get away with longer ones
    - Walk with swagger B)

    Those are all I can think of right now, and of course you don't have to 'pass' if you don't want to, and these are not necessary, but here are some ideas I've picked up!
    Would love to hear your contributions as well, if you want!
     
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    this is so sweet of you to share
    Best Wishes
    -Bonnie<3
     
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    Ooh, thanks for sharing!
    When I'm trying to look male I wear blazers, they give you a more boxy, rectangular shape (even if I do look like an 80s popstar).
     
  4. Folieadeux

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    Glad to share!

    Thank you! I should get myself some blazers for formal occasions.
     
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    My hips appear a lot less wide when I wear cargo shorts (or really any shorts) instead of jeans.
     
  6. Folieadeux

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    Also, lots probably know this, but I didn't;

    To deepen your voice (at least temporarily), hum in a low pitch and then bring your head back and stare at the ceiling for a while and slowly go down and bring your head to you chest while still humming.

    It helps quite a bit, but can be pretty straining, so watch out!
     
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    Thanks for sharing, I try to do most of these.
     
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    Thanks, especially for the voice tip.
     
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    Thanks for sharing! I knew some of these but not others. :slight_smile:

    I don't have any tips to contribute - I don't think I could pass to save my life.
     
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    This is nice of you to post. :slight_smile:

    Cargo shorts whenever it's above 50 degrees. And when it's too cold, cargo pants.
    Sunglasses, nothing sparkly or blingy. For me, like aviator and wayfarer styles are the best. They kinda cover up part of your face and they make, me anyway, look more like a guy.

    Certain plaids help you look flat even if you don't have a binder.

    Sweatshirts, yes.

    Don't cross your legs too much when you sit, and sit on the back of your butt if that makes any sense.
     
  11. Folieadeux

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    Oh, and to add to the crossing legs, if you want to, most/some guys just sit with their ankle on the other knee, so there is a big gap that forms a triangle kind of shape, if that makes sense.