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Am I gender fluid?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by HiImSkittles, Apr 12, 2015.

  1. HiImSkittles

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    Hello~ I've just recently started to question my gender (and sexuality). I am biologically female and usually act a mix between girl and boy (kind of like a tomboy). Sometimes I switch between being a girl who loves pink poofy dresses and cute things and a boy who just generally feels more masculine and also quiet. Sometimes I just change and sometimes there is some sort of trigger. I'm just wondering if I am gender fluid? :icon_bigg Thank you~
     
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    I don't know but you're welcome to talk to me. I am the exact same way
     
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    You might be! My prom date is fluid, and ze has acted in a similar way.
    You can wall me if you have questions! We're here (&&&)
    Take care <33 (*hug*)
     
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    You're genderfluid.
     
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    You definitely sound like you could be genderfluid to me. The important thing to consider is the difference between being a gender and just acting like a gender. You say you switch between being a girl and being a boy, which would definitely mean you could use the label genderfluid, but you also reference very stereotypically masculine and feminine things to describe your identity. Liking stereotypically masculine things as a guy and feminine things as a girl is a totally valid way to be genderfluid. Just make sure you're defining your identity based on actual gender identity and not just stereotypes.
     
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    Ok thanks everyone for your replies :slight_smile:
     
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    You're either gender fluid or genderqueer