I haaate my hair. All it does is give me dysphoria. Can't find any nice gender neutral haircuts for people with my ugly afro hair. Help?
Could you pull a few pictures off of the internet that give an idea of what your hair looks like? Why do you feel that your hair is too masculine/feminine?
What about shortish and cornrows? Good for all ages and genders. Or some sort of a taper, maybe. This is pretty androgynous: