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Genderfluid?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by bunbun, May 3, 2015.

  1. bunbun

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    Hello. I am new to this site, and I do not know much about this sort of thing. There are so many terms and it's pretty confusing. I'm thinking that I'm genderfluid. As I said, I don't know much about these things, so I don't know if it's right. My problem is that some days, I want to be a boy. I see boy clothes, I wish I could be one and wear them. I want to be in a mans body, lead a mans life. Other days I want to be a girl. I want to be in a woman's body, long hair, dresses. Other days I might not care at all what I am that day. I might not have that big urge to be a girl or the urge to be a guy that day, it's just "whatever." I'm rather confused. I just learning about genderfluid, bigender, and genderqueer. That's all I know, but I am still rather confused on if I am any of these or not. I've always gone by female, but some days I wish I wasn't. I just learned about these terms, and are rather confused on what I am. I deeply appreciate any help.
     
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    To me it sounds like you're right, you probably are genderfluid. :slight_smile:
     
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    You sound like you could be genderfluid to me.

    Bigender could work if you feel like you only switch between two genders (presumably male and female in your case).

    Genderqueer is an umbrella term, so you could use it to describe yourself if you end up IDing as any nonbinary identity (so genderfluid and bigender are both included).
     
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    Google can clear up a lot of stuff but it seems like genderfluid.