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kinda curious

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by alien on online, May 16, 2015.

  1. alien on online

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    Okay I'm never been good at this but anyway here's my best shot. so the story starts around the start of last year when it finally clicked that I was gay. About half though the year I started to wonder how do I know I'm a guy . I have never felt like one but then again I don't really feel like a girl ether. I just kinda feel like me . I don't really know how to explain it. I have been thinking for on and off for about 6 months. Whenever I say things like I'm a man or woman it just feels odd.
    and sorry for spelling mistakes my auto correct can be a problem
    So to my question how does one know these things?
     
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    You could have no gender, it's definitely possible. A person without gender is called "agender" and it sounds like you could be agender. Does it sound right to you that you would rather be recognized as a person, not as a man or woman? How do you feel about the "he," "she," and "they" pronouns? Do you prefer a specific one, or does it make no difference for you? Also, how do you feel about doing certain activities that are usually considered masculine or feminine?
     
  3. alien on online

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    I am going to do some research on this agender
    Thank you for your quick response (I'm still working out this site works on phone )
     
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    Here are some other terms you can search up on if you don't feel like agender fits you.

    1. Genderqueer
    2. Neutrois
    3. Gender-nonconforming
    4. Gender-Fluid (tip: if you're gender-fluid, you can switch between any gender)

    Good luck :slight_smile: