Questioning my gender/looking for gender therapist?

Lately, I've been questioning my gender a lot more. I feel like something in my mind should've clicked but it didn't. Something should have clicked that wanted me to dress cute or paint my nails or do my hair, but it never did like it did with all the other girls. 9 times out of 10, I dress like a guy, I act like a guy, and I feel like one. Like there are thing I like about being a girl, but there's just not enough for me to feel like I fit in as one. And I constantly feel so confused all the time and I'm always overthinking it and I'm just not sure anymore I'm thinking about going to see a gender therapist near me, but I'm struggling to figure out how to find one in my area (if anyone knows any good ones near Virginia Beach, Norfolk, Chesapeake area)