I identify somewhere in the vast void that is genderqueer, but am not out to any family as they are transphobic and being kicked out is not an option as I am only 14 years old. Due to this it means I cant get a binder which sucks because I get really dysphoric about my breasts. I could probably buy a binder if I raised enough money, but for now I cant, and even if I did it would mean explaining to my family.. Basically, I need help coming up with a way to get a binder without revealing my gender identity, and which binder to get if I am allowed one. Help?
This is a great website, but especially this section could be helpful, if you can get the money. ^^ If not, wearing sports bras can help, I've heard. One on the right way round, and one on back-to-front.
Thank you for replying! I'll have a look at the links. Is the sports bra method suitable for people with slightly larger breasts? Because I have C-D, and have heard it can be quite difficult to do.
That's Ok. ^^ Don't ask me! ^^ I assume that it would work to some extent, but it will never be as good as a binder.
