Ok so I am biologically a boy, I have a penis. I have turned 16, 3 weeks ago. I have gender identity issues :bang:. I like dressing like a boy and having guy haircuts because they are really cool . I am quite alright being called him and he. I am comfortable with my current body. So all this makes me sound like I am a cisgender male, but wait till you read the rest. As I have already said, I am comfortable with my body but I would prefer having a vagina instead, despite having painful periods, I still want that. I also see pregnancy as a beautiful thing, I mean you carry your own child inside you, it's like a deep bond you will forever have. Breasts though, i dont know if i want them, i think i prefer my flat chest. I wish my body could be like a mix of male and female parts like the top part is male and the bottom is female. I am pretty girly, I mean I am not a stereotypical guy, I don't like sports or fighting but I do enjoy playing a bit of basketball. I am not unemotional like most guys or agressive, I like to go shopping but I also like to just hang out with my pals like a regular guy (&&&). When i see stuff i like most of the time they are for girls, i hate that. have read about something called a demi boy, and I think that is what I am, what do you think?
I think demiboy would be a good word to describe you. You certainly don't sound 100% cis, but you also don't sound particularly female. You could also consider whether you think the label androgyne fits.
Androgyne is essentially not fitting into a binary gender (male or female), and ignoring gender stereotypes. Kind of like just doing whatever you want, wearing whatever you want, looking how you want, etc. That's the best way I can describe it. Basically, what everyone should feel free to do anyway
Gender identity actually has nothing to do with stereotypes. I tend to summarize androgyne as basically the gender version of looking androgynous. It's neutral and in between.
