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Trans or Genderqueer? And Dressing...

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Posthuman666, Jun 15, 2015.

  1. Posthuman666

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    So I have being feeling more and more feminine (I'm biologically male ) but sometimes I feel decently masculine, although that is considerably more rare. And in addition in dreams I keep seeing myself as a woman...

    And if I do become comfortable with a label and that label is genderqueer, can I still dress feminine and use feminine pronouns?
     
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    If that's what feels right for you, go for it.
     
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    yep I agree
     
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    Everyone's labels and pronouns are their own. They mean something different and personal to everyone. If you wanna use genderqueer, wear feminine clothes and use she/her pronouns, that's totally fine. Do what makes you feel right.
     
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    I had the same problem as you. I still get odd days where I think I'm wrong to say I'm now male. It haunts me a little. I suppose that trans or genderqueer you can ask to be addressed by a certain pronoun. But :goodluck: on figuring out your true self.
     
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    The more you feel yourself out the more your heart will guide you.

    I used to think I was bigender because I liked it. No it was of necessity.

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    You can wear whatever you want and use whatever pronouns feel comfortable.
     
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    If that's what you're comfortable with, there's no one stopping you. :thumbsup: