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In my dreams.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Natasha Elyssa, Jun 27, 2015.

  1. Natasha Elyssa

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    Whenever I dream, I dream myself as fully female. I have zero dreams where I'm male. Anyone else experience this? I personally love it. It makes me feel good about myself. :slight_smile: <3
     
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    For me I'm female in my dreams about half the time, but it seems to depend on what the dream is about. If it's a sexual dream I'm always female, but if it's an adventure or everyday stuff I either don't have a noticeable gender or I'm a dude. It's interesting.
     
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    Yup, I've had a few dreams about being male, it does feel good. :slight_smile:
     
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    I barely remember my dreams enough to say, but it's few and far between that I'm cis or post-op. But when those do happen, they're the best.
     
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    I don't remember half my dreams. In some that I remember, I look exactly as I am except without breasts (post op but without T). In others, I'm post op and on T, which are the ones I like. Before I started really questioning my gender, I had a couple where I was a cis guy, but ever since I came to my realization I've strangely only dreamed of myself as a trans guy.
     
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    I was usually androgynous in my dreams till I realized I was trans. Then I was a pre t trans man and then a grand man on t and then a cis man
     
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    Unfortunately, in my dreams when I'm aware of my body it's usually in the paranoid sense of "I look too male."
     
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    I don't remember most of my dreams but in the few I can remember my gender is not visible or doesn't play any role. What I remember are mostly emotions, like shame, craving, fear.

    The thing now is, I can remember last nights dream very clearly.
    I have seen myself first person lying on my side of the bed my naked bosom clearly visible and my wife approaching me for physical contact. Then I woke up seeing her lying as far away as possible.

    I assume that my subconsciousness tried to process the strain my outing to her laid on our relationship and adding a (from my point of view) happy end to it.

    We are far away from "and they lived happily ever after"...