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Female or Genderfluid? Help?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by xdarlingx, Jul 13, 2015.

  1. xdarlingx

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    Hello everyone. Okay, so the past few days I've been questioning my gender identity. I am female and enjoy it immensely. I love girly clothes and wouldn't give it up for anything. But there are days where i feel like dressing in more neutral/masculine clothing. I don't wish to look completely like a guy, but sometimes I just want to wear jeans and a guys hoodie instead of a skirt and blouse. I do identify as female and use female pronouns, but sometimes I just feel like and want to dress more like a guy. My question is, am I female and just like dressing in mens clothes sometimes or am I genderfluid? I have no problem being a girl, its just sometimes I feel more masculine than others. Its not a case of some days I feel like a girl and others I feel like a guy, its more just how I feel on that day, though I always identify as a girl. I'm kind of confused so some help would be great. Thanks! :slight_smile:
     
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    I am 99% sure that you are cis.

    You just happen to enjoy certain clothing.

    I would advice you not to worry about this!

    Hope that helps
     
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    Thanks and yes it did help. I am pretty sure you are right as I do identify as female but I sometimes like short hair, neutural clothes, etc but I dont really "feel" like a guy. I just wanted a second opinion though so thank you :slight_smile:
     
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    Any time.

    Society shouldn't tell you you can't both be female and like short hair or typically masculine clothes. Just do your thing :slight_smile: