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Is this a gender thing or sexuality?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Par, Jul 17, 2015.

  1. Par

    Par
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    Location:
    Yorkshire
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    As I'm bigender I switch between being a straight male and a lesbian female.
    I've noticed that I tend to be more attracted to girls as a girl than as a guy (I'm not attracted to guys at all, just the extent of how much I'm attracted to girls changes). I'm not really sure why this is, whether it's important or if I should be worried - basically does anyone have any thoughts on why this is the case?
     
  2. TobaccoFlower

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    Gender:
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    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I am pan but I do the same for men. I am less attracted to men when I feel particularly manly one day and when I feel girly I have more of a friendly stance towards women than a sexual one. It depends most on whom I feel like I am. Granted as I open up to myself this fluctuation goes away. I personally wrote it off as a fear of my own Sexuality.